Adena M'lynn's Voice

First, I am not Catholic, but I am a Christian. I read all kinds of writings from people I believe are sincere and a voice of hope. I guess I look for wisdom.  In a speech, Pope Francis delivered a powerful and uplifting message about finding happiness and resilience in the face of life's challenges. He reminds us that even though we may have flaws, anxieties, and moments of anger, our lives are incredibly valuable, and we are loved and appreciated by many. True happiness, he says, is not about living without difficulties but about overcoming them with strength and grace. Pope Francis emphasizes the importance of taking control of our own destinies, being grateful for the miracle of life each day, and cherishing our relationships, even when they are not perfect. He encourages us to embrace our inner selves, acknowledge our mistakes, and have the courage to apologize and express our needs and love to others. The Pope's words inspire us to see life as a garden of opportunities, w...

by Adena M'lynn  In human relationships, the shadow of abandonment looms large, often brought forth by the silent footsteps of unmet expectations. These expectations, whether whispered in the quiet moments of self-reflection or shouted in the throes of despair, shape our emotional landscapes in profound ways. Yet, what happens when the scaffolding of our hopes crumbles, leaving us to navigate the ruins of disappointment? Let’s explore the journey of recognizing, understanding, and ultimately releasing the expectations that tether us to feelings of abandonment, guiding us toward a more liberated, emotionally fulfilling life. Understanding Expectations and Feelings of Abandonment Expectations are the architects of our future joy and pain, silently constructing the frameworks within which our relationships operate. They are born from our desires, experiences, and the societal narratives that whisper what we 'should' receive from those around us. Yet, when these expectations go...